Hardest First 6 Months of Blogging: How to Succeed Gracefully

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Being an influencer/blogger/content creator/freelance writer is a novel career path to pursue. It’s a job that only existed recently, and despite its lucrative ways of earning money, is still being frowned upon by many. Producing unique, helpful content for anyone’s disposal is unfortunately branded as NOT a “real, serious, or sustainable form of livelihood.” Having this tarnished reputation and stigma on the blogging industry puts a heavier burden on any blogger as if the entire process isn’t already hard enough. Aside from the struggle of proving the world wrong, the majority of new bloggers quit before six months because they don’t find joy in what they’re doing.

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Like most bloggers, I decided to start a blog to hopefully generate a sustainable stream of income. I was like any other aspiring blogger who spent many hours obsessing over income reports and blogging success stories that frankly don’t tell the truth. It was then I realized it wasn’t that easy to make money that I loathe those who deceived novice bloggers. It’s not impossible, but as for me, I didn’t earn any money in the first few months.


Anxious thoughts lingered in my mind whether I was doing it right. I had lots of unrealistic expectations about my blog without putting in enough work yet. I was also overwhelmed with the drastic changes and sacrifices it required to succeed in blogging. I also compared my blog with others too much; I almost lost my writing style. I discovered persistence to the craft and consistency were the ingredients to boost traffic. 

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Before committing to start a blog, I practiced self-awareness and evaluated my interests and priorities. I figured writing stories and sharing advice was both my passion and a strategy to earn money. As a 20-year-old only child from the Philippines, I wanted to be the older sister I wished I had. To give heartfelt advice to people in their twenties was my purpose for creating Life Begins At Twenty. 


Out of all the blogging advice I heard, the one thing I believed and followed [religiously] was creating unique, niche-based content. Before people can appreciate and consume my content, I needed to work my way up by gaining their trust. I published high-quality blog posts consistently 2-3 days every week. I also heavily promoted my blog posts on several social media platforms every day. 


One thing I thought I’d never do when I got into blogging was to put out my name to the world. I always hated the idea of fame and popularity since I finished high school. I was skeptical about sharing my story and life out in public. The blogging community was the amazing support system I surrounded myself with to help me with my questions and reader engagement. 


One thing that stopped me from giving up is not to get hung up on the arbitrary definitions of success and self-worth. I constantly checked on my blog’s statistics, but I didn’t put the pressure on myself. I accepted the fact that I’m still starting, and a part of the struggle is having to be patient even when results aren’t showing. I understood there are more successful blogs out there with a lot more credibility and expertise in their niches, so I needed to stand out among them. 


I started my lifestyle blog with a personal and collaborative goal to help out people in their twenties. I was once that (and frankly still am) annoying novice blogger who asks simple questions that other seasoned bloggers find ridiculous. Starting from scratch, I took advantage of the vast, accessible information and researched how to rank in Google. I didn’t let other bloggers’ success make mine mean any less by focusing on my productivity and engagement.


The first six months of blogging are the hardest because it takes sheer will, patience, and passion to make it through. Not all people have any of these qualities, including me, but I was determined to do the work. Any aspiring blogger or influencer can do what I’m doing (balancing school and a lifestyle blog) as long as they execute their plans and never give up. Until now, I’m continuing to make all my blogging goals come true, regardless of how long it would take me. I refused to give up simply because I love what I’m doing and I’m looking forward to enjoying more of what the fruits of my labor have in store for me. 

Published by Monique Renegado

Monique started Life Begins At Twenty as a 20-year-old college student from the Philippines. In her lifestyle and wellness blog, she shares first-hand experiences and soulful advice about student life, relationships, mental health, adulting, and self-growth. Monique is passionate about literature, music, public speaking, and family. Besides studying and blogging full-time, she strives hard to become a published author with her first YA fiction novel and poems. Monique is the older sister you wish you had to help you navigate your twenties successfully. If you want a constant drive for motivation and pep talks, be a part of her journey.

22 thoughts on “Hardest First 6 Months of Blogging: How to Succeed Gracefully

  1. This is a trustworthy story to get inspired from while doing full time blogging! Really loved the things mentioned and they really motivates easch one of us as a blogger!Thanks a lot for sharinghttps://bloggingtogenerations.blogspot.com


  2. Upon starting a blog, depending on your niche, you have to remember it could take years before you can make reasonable money for the effort you're putting in. Don't expect to make money from blogging right away


  3. These are some really great suggestions and help for new bloggers who are struggling and for them to understand the reality of blogging that it takes time. Thank you for sharing. Lauren – bournemouthgirl


  4. These are definitely wise words for new bloggers. I think those of us who have been blogging a while can say that we all go through periods of time where we feel less committed and sometimes it okay just to skip a week if life is just too crazy. Thanks for sharing.


  5. Thank you for sharing your story and words! For me when I first started 5 years ago I didn’t do it because I wanted a career (and I still don’t want one at the moment) I just love to write and share things I am passionate about and if I collab or have any ads with anyone then that’s fine but I love what I do ☺️ X


  6. This is a really helpful post for anybody just starting. The fact that you get less traffic can sometimes be helpful when you're learning all the processes behind the scenes.


  7. I started blogging because I like to write, share, and learn things at the same time. I always enjoy it since I was in junior high school. I wrote an article for a local newspaper, it got published then I earned pocket money. Doing things that you love and enjoy then awarded with a positive compliment from colleagues + earning income from it, that is something that not everyone could have 🙂 Love this post! Thanks for sharing your experience! Wish you all the best x


  8. I love this so much. I've had my blog almost for two years now and I still struggle with stats and traffic. But I enjoy doing it so I don't put too much pressure on myself. I make a little money and its a creative outlet for me so I am not going to stress myself out on it.


  9. I really needed to hear this! I've been blogging for only 5 months, and I've had so many ups and downs since I started. You definitely helped me to keep going, every beginning is hard, we just need to keep going! THank you so much for sharing!xxDora | budgetingminimalist.com


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